Home Away From Home

One of my favorite parts of our South African journey was sharing meals in the homes of so many different people!  In Cape Town, we participated in Dine with Khayelitsha, a program where guests are given a tour of the township Khayelitsha, created during apartheid for black South Africans forced out of white group areas of Cape Town, and then invited into the homes of Khayelitsha residents to eat with their families.  During the walking tour portion, we experienced a friendly, lively neighborhood where on the Sunday evening we visited, people hung out on the streets listening to music, chatting, dancing, and laughing.  Then, we got to sit in the living room of one of our guides, Luthando, and share delicious home-cooked food and conversation with his family. Residents of Khayelitsha created this program to reduce negative stigma around the people living in townships for outsiders like residents of Cape Town and tourists. It was incredible to spend quality time in a cozy, intimate setting with friends old and new, not to mention to eat the best serving of pap and chakalaka I had all trip!
When we visited the neighborhood of Bo-Kaap near Cape Town’s center, we were invited to the homes of two witty women as colorful in personality as the houses they lived in!  There, we were taught how to cook a traditional Cape Malay meal of curry, roti, and samosas.  The Cape Malay culture and cuisine prevalent in Bo-Kaap draws from that of places like Indonesia, India, and Madagascar from where Europeans brought workers to South Africa.  This meal felt familiar and special to me because of the parallel history of colonization in South Africa and Guyana, the South American country half of my family is from, leading to similar cuisines. In addition to the cooking lesson, we learned the health benefits of different spices, and how to win over a husband.  Even though our hosts were fasting in observance of Ramadan, as many of the Cape Malay population practice Islam, they still cooked for us and assisted us in the preparation of our meal which I greatly appreciated.
We revisited Khayelitsha where we had the opportunity to eat in a home turned restaurant called 4Roomed, run by a warm, bubbly South African MasterChef finalist, Abigail Mbalo.  Abigail gives traditional township food a gourmet spin. For example, she turned the pap we ate our first night in Khayelitsha into butternut pap.  Although this may not have been Abigail’s house, it was meant to feel like a typical four roomed township home, and the dining set-up in the backyard around a large rectangular table was meant to encourage interaction between guests, as if it were a dinner party hosted in someone's house.
Our final dinner together, energetic and quirky Jade de Waal, also of MasterChef South Africa, crafted an experience for us in her parent’s home.  As a group, we sat around the living room snacking and drinking. Then we split off into smaller groups and received intimidating recipes, which we motivated each other through and all managed to complete in the most tasty and impressive of ways! We cooked the entire meal and ate together in the shared space of her kitchen which also became a dancefloor, a bar, a speaking platform, and a dining room in the process. It was such an awesome ending to a trip to make a meal and enjoy it together in this space of family and closeness, especially with this wonderful group I’ve spent a month learning and growing with.

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